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		<title>Happy Endings</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2011 21:38:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have a 27 year old client who was abandoned by his momma when he was very young.  He has cerebral palsy, intellectual disabilities and juvenile diabetes.  Recently we moved him in with a family that has a foster care home for adults with disabilities.  They are very caring and nurturing.  He was so happy [...]]]></description>
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We have a 27 year old client who was abandoned by his momma when he was very young.  He has cerebral palsy, intellectual disabilities and juvenile diabetes.  Recently we moved him in with a family that has a foster care home for adults with disabilities.  They are very caring and nurturing.  He was so happy with his new home that he told his foster father he didn’t want to move any time soon.  The foster father said, ‘don’t worry, we’ll grow old together’.  Yesterday at his new Dayhab, he baked his first cake for St. Patrick&#8217;s Day.  His large new extended family all love him and his foster mom is working with him every day on his speaking and healthy eating.  He is looking forward to his first family vacation this summer.  Praise God for caring, nurturing people to care for adults with disabilities and give them the family they never had.</p>
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		<title>Thank you for Here</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2010 20:54:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Guardianship Stories]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Alone]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was no way to know if she understood what we were saying when we first met her.  She could not talk – could not tell us what was wrong or what she wanted or needed.  There was a look of fear in her eyes that I will never forget.  She was panicked – stumbling [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>There was no way to know if she understood what we were saying when we first met her.  She could not talk – could not tell us what was wrong or what she wanted or needed.  There was a look of fear in her eyes that I will never forget.  She was panicked – stumbling around half-dressed.  It was clear she had not bathed or combed her hair in a very long time.  We were asked to be her guardian- to take care of her and we did.  Weeks later she looked like a totally different person – hair that once stood straight up on her head was replaced with a new hairdo.  She was wearing clean clothes and with proper medical care and good nutrition, she could now talk.  “My husband and I never had children.  I was all alone.  I was so scared at night that I could not sleep.  I was terrified. I didn’t know what to do.  Thank you for HERE.”  She did not know the name of her safe, new home, but her fear was gone and there were tears of joy in her eyes.</em></strong></p>
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		<title>21 Years Old</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 04:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Adult Day Care Highlights]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Birthday]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This month Friends for Life is 21 years old!  We started helping people in September of 1989.  This year Friends for Life is helping about 3,815 people. 93 frail elderly and adults with disabilities are enrolled in our Adult Day Care Center with between 75 and 80 coming each day now.  We provide nursing care, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://friendsforlife.org/images/birthday.jpg" alt="" width="184" height="260" />This month <strong>Friends for Life is 21 years old</strong>!  We started helping people in September of 1989.  This year Friends for Life is helping about 3,815 people.</p>
<p><strong>93</strong> frail elderly and adults with disabilities are enrolled in our <strong>Adult Day Care</strong> Center with between 75 and 80 coming each day now.  We provide nursing care, activities, nutritious food, transportation.  We currently serve breakfast lunch and a snack in the afternoon.</p>
<p>In <strong>Guardianship</strong>, we serve <strong>320</strong> people.  (We are appointed by the courts to serve as guardians in 39 counties in Texas when the judges determine that individuals don’t have capacity to make decisions for themselves and when there is no family member qualified and willing to serve.  We serve 261 people as Guardian of Person, 3 people as Guardian of Estate and 56 as Guardian of Person and Estate.)</p>
<p><strong>442 </strong>are helped through our <strong>Money Management</strong> Program where we provide information, referral to other agencies, assistance with accessing services in addition to helping some make sure bills are paid, utilities remain on, etc.  Since those who need help with money management often need help with many other things, we work to make sure that they have the help they need.</p>
<p>We have <strong>870</strong> in our <strong>Independent Living </strong>Programs (We recruit, screen, train and organize volunteers to help people age in place.  They can stay in their own homes as long as possible.  With a little help through our <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Minor Household Repairs Program</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Telephone Reassurance</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Companion to the Doctor</span>, and help changing light bulbs and mowing lawns, and other programs, many end up able to live out their lives at home.  And, these programs make it possible for us to build bridges between us and them so that when they have a problem like electricity being turned off or running out of medicine, they may call us and we can fix the problem while it is a small problem – before it becomes life threatening.)</p>
<p>This year we are reaching out to approximately <strong>2,090</strong> in our <strong>Quality of Life</strong> Programs (With programs like <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Adopt a Grandparent</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Friendly Visiting</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Pen Pals</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Friends for Thanksgiving</span>, and many more, we are helping lonely elderly and people with disabilities know they are loved.  Our <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Gifts for Grannies &amp; Grandpas, too</span> program reaches out to more than this, but it also provides gifts for people in our other programs who are alone and have no one to remember them on their birthdays and holidays.</p>
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		<title>I don&#8217;t know what to do.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 21:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Guardianship Stories]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I went to see an elderly widow who was sitting on concrete steps outside her house.  She was crying and she had pulled out almost all of her hair. There were ants crawling all over her.   She couldn’t remember when she had eaten last or when she had taken her medicine.  She just kept [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went to see an elderly widow who was sitting on concrete steps outside her house.  She was crying and she had pulled out almost all of her hair. There were ants crawling all over her.   She couldn’t remember when she had eaten last or when she had taken her medicine.  She just kept crying, “I don’t know what to do.  I don’t know what to do.”  We found her a safe place to live where she had people to take care of her &#8211; people who made sure she ate and took her medicine.  And, we got her a wig.</p>
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		<title>They Won&#8217;t Know</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We told one of our elderly guardianship clients that we never show anyone their pictures to protect them and to insure confidentiality. She gave us this picture and said, &#8220;Show  this.  No one will know it&#8217;s me.&#8221;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright" src="http://friendsforlife.org/Picture1.jpg" alt="" width="145" height="217" />We told one of our elderly guardianship clients that we never show anyone their pictures to protect them and to insure confidentiality.</p>
<p>She gave us this picture and said, &#8220;Show  this.  No one will know it&#8217;s me.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>In a Shed behind his House</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 20:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Guardianship Stories]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[He was a vet. His family had locked him in a shed behind his house for years.  He might have died in that shed, but one of his family members got mad at him and split his head open with a hoe.  The family took him to the emergency room. Police told us later they [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.hyload.co.uk/files/275BAEB5-E0E8-4836-9991-9AC10103A4B4.aspx/shed8%20small.jpg" alt="" width="269" height="358" />He was a vet.</p>
<p>His family had locked him in a shed behind his house for years.  He might have died in that shed, but one of his family members got mad at him and split his head open with a hoe.  The family took him to the emergency room.</p>
<p>Police told us later they were sure the family would never have taken him to the hospital if they had been able to figure out how to continue to collect his retirement check if he died.</p>
<p>We were asked to be his guardian and we made sure he had a safe place to live and that his money went to him.</p>
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		<title>Saving for a Rainy Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 04:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>inez</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Guardianship Stories]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[In our first year at Friends for Life, we were asked to be the legal guardian for a man who had been found unconscious on a railroad track. He was living in a shed about the size of my office (which was pretty tiny).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- 		@page { size: 8.5in 11in; margin: 0.79in } 		P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --><img class="alignright" src="http://www.sharetheguide.org/images-folder/generic-images/old-man.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="308" />In our first year at Friends for Life, we were asked to be the legal guardian for a man who had been found unconscious on a railroad track. He was living in a shed about the size of my office (which was pretty tiny). There was no electricity and no running water. He lost consciousness because he was sick – from exposure and poor nutrition. It turned out that he had quite a lot of money – hundreds of thousands of dollars in banks that he was saving for a ‘rainy day’. He just did not realize it was raining.</p>
<p>We became his guardian so he could get the care that he needed. What a delightful man he turned out to be. I remember that he asked us to take him to get new frames for his glasses. He was quite specific. He did not want new lenses. They were just fine. He had broken his frames when he fell onto the railroad track. He just needed new frames. He wanted to go back to his optometrist. He knew exactly where the office was, even though he had not been there in over fifty years! Fortunately, the son of his optometrist had taken over the practice and still had his records. He was right about the lenses. The prescription had not changed!</p>
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